The magic of that little quiet voice within you…
Looking back on my life there have been extraordinary things that have happened apparently down to absolute fluke. Sitting here in the quiet whilst I try to absorb information that demands significant decision making means that I feel the weight of responsibility. That need to ‘choose’ the right thing to do, that thing that will lead me to where I most want to be.
I have often said that I truly believe that somewhere in our beings we know we are destined to meet certain people, to be parents to certain children. We feel like it is down to us to chase them, to find them, to make it possible for the door to be open enough for them to come through. This can feel overwhelming and scary too, and can make us act on impulse or out of sheer panic.
Just know that if you feel called to have a child in your life – maybe your first, maybe your second or third just know first up that this is a connection you already have with them. If you can make time to sit and be still – to allow the quiet to fill your mind then little inklings will come through that will guide you to them. It might be a journey that incorporates things that you need to do for you, or it might be a quicker more straight forward destination. But you can get there, and you can be assured that as long as you have the intention and you create the space to listen then the answers will come. They come in all sorts of ways, from a gut instinct on what feels like the best idea, to coming across the exact person or information that you need at that time.
You need simply to trust and hear yourself. That little quiet voice within is talking to you, guiding you, always. No decision need be final or set in stone, but it may be that you need to sit with it for a few hours or days just to see what starts to come out as your gut reaction. Follow that path and it will always be right in the end.
Nobody else knows you and your path – only you.
People may give you suggestions or ideas and they will help you because they allow you to hear that gentle ‘yes I like that’ or ‘no – that isn’t what I want’.
Make room for a little magic and I tell you what, it will come in somehow just as long as you don’t stop hoping for what you want and being honest with how that can look.