What if living without fear is possible? If we could all live without the fear of ‘what if’, I know we would all have a divinely different experience. The thing that plagues us as human beings more than anything else is the fear of what may or may not happen in our future. It can plunge us deep into the very ocean of our beings where we lie quivering, wondering how the hell we can go on.
What I have realised is what we, as human beings have missed is that there is a great almighty knowing in each and every one of us. When we choose to take full responsibility for all that comes to us and all that we can create instead of placing faith in something outside of us we can liberate ourselves fully into the position of control.
I was shaken to the core when I was told I could never have another baby naturally. I wasn’t shaken by the news nearly as much as I was by my reaction. Fear appeared to totally desert me. All I could feel was this intense peace and a sense of knowing everything would be alright.
It wasn’t like an optimistic part of me trying to cover things up and insist that I would find the solution. It spoke gently to me as if to say, it doesn’t make a difference what happens – you are going to be more than fine. It hasn’t just been in my fertility that I have felt this lack of fear. I have also come to experience it in my finances, my relationships and my work. With lack of fear I also find that jealousy and envy all evaporates. I know it isn’t forever, all things pass but for now I have had a taste of exquisite well being…a taste of living without fear…at a time in my life when I ‘ought’ to be in pieces exploring the ‘what ifs’ through a sea of tears.
I wonder if we all have an innate sense of knowing. A higher self inside us that has got our back, who knows the bigger picture and wishes that you knew how resilient and strong and awesome you are. The other thing is that I am not so sure it is all about compromise. Yes, what we think we want isn’t always the same as what we actually want that is for sure, but when we can see things in a different light, life can be so much nicer.
We have more choice than we know.
When we listen to the desires and the instincts rather than the fears, answers, guidance and love pours in.
So, what would you do if you knew it would work out no matter what?
I believe we are powerful beings with incredible healing abilities inside us. I believe there is no situation which cannot be resolved but I also don’t feel like my life depends upon it. When we begin to realise that we can create our own paths, our own recoveries and our own victories that is when we can truly get to where we want to be.
In a way it’s so bizarre what so many of us do. If we were at a shop buying a life and a sales guy tried to sell us an existence based on fear, a job that leaves us feeling depleted, under valued and exhausted, the feeling of never having enough we would surely say, “What?!!” “Oh yes” the sales assistant would say. “It’s our most popular model, a real best seller. It comes with added extra features such as the feeling of being more tired when you wake up than when you went to bed and the need to constantly get what you haven’t got in order to be happy. The lovely twist is that you will believe fully that you can’t get access to that stuff! Want to sign up?!”
“YES PLEASE” says at least 50% of the population, and hops on the band wagon. This leaves 25% thinking; “this can’t be right, I am going to try another way” and finding they can live awesome lives and come into alignment with all things, experiences and beings that they choose. Then the last 25% saying that they love the idea of creating a life without fear and deprivation but aren’t quite sure how to break the mould.
What if something inside you knew that you would and could have everything you ever wanted, without question?
What would you choose to do?
Millions of us take actions against our instincts every day. Millions more of us take the right actions but fill all our thinking with fear. This is torture and it is robbing us of our lives.
There is nothing in the world we cannot heal from.
There is nothing in the world we cannot have if that is what we truly desire.
We need to start believing in miracles, believing in ourselves and choosing our thoughts and reactions more carefully.
I don’t want you to be held to ransom by your fears anymore. I want you to be able to take actions that help your body on the healing path to abundant well being. So instead of asking “what happens if it isn’t ok?” try asking “what happens if it is ok?”
Wouldn’t it be lovely for it all to work out?
I just want you to know that you have all the answers inside yourself if only you could trust yourself to be right. Don’t be scared my darlings, there is nothing you cannot handle and there is nothing you can’t make right. There is nothing you can’t heal if you listen to yourself clearly.
Tune into the voice inside. The higher self who has all the compassion and the instinct. She knows the way. If you feel you need help accessing that higher self then try this free meditation I have made for you.
WIth so much love,